What you’re saying is fair, and I don’t disagree. A 9060 XT will be somewhat bottlenecked by a 5600GT, especially in CPU-heavy games or at 1080p.
When I build or recommend parts, my philosophy is to think a step ahead for the future. If he were to upgrade the CPU alone to something like a 5800-class chip while keeping the 6 GB 3050, the real-world gains would mostly show up as slightly higher minimum FPS and smoother frame pacing—but average FPS and visual settings wouldn’t change much because the GPU would still be the limiting factor.
By comparison, a GPU upgrade provides a much more noticeable improvement right away: higher graphics settings, better consistency, and eliminating the VRAM limitations that already cause compromises in modern games. Even if the CPU caps peak FPS in some scenarios, the overall experience improves more immediately.
Ideally, both upgrades would happen at the same time, but that’s not always realistic financially. If only one component can be upgraded now, I lean toward the GPU because it delivers meaningful gains today and still makes sense long-term when the CPU is eventually upgraded.
Againa, I think you’re 100% right—it will be bottlenecked until he upgrades the CPU or the system as a whole. In the meantime, he would likely need to cap his frame rate at around 60 FPS (possibly higher depending on the game) to help reduce stuttering caused by the slower CPU.
He should still be able to play games at high or even max settings and shift more of the workload onto the GPU, which can help with overall smoothness. That said, in some titles, CPU-heavy settings like crowd density, physics, or simulation options may still need to be dialed back a bit depending on the game.
If Sorryimreallydumb (no—you’re not) can swing the roughly $600 and do both upgrades at the same time, then you end up with a really solid machine with no major compromises. Until then, some trade-offs are inevitable, and a bit of settings experimentation will be needed to find the smoothest experience. I think we’re really just looking at the same problem from two different directions—the end result is the same either way. Once all the upgrades are eventually done, the system ends up in the same place; it’s just a matter of which component gets addressed first (I just believe the 6gig card is gotta go first) and how things are dialed in along the way. I’ve been in that situation before myself, upgrading parts piecemeal, and sometimes it’s just about dialing things in until the rest of the system catches up.